The answer to “I don’t know what to say or send” — when someone you care about is grieving and you’re paralyzed by distance, inadequacy, and the helplessness of watching them suffer from far away.

This isn’t trying to fix their grief. Nothing can. But it does ensure they have something comforting to eat during those impossible days when cooking feels unthinkable and eating feels pointless but their body still needs fuel. Whoopie pies, brownie cookies, chocolate chip cookies, mini brownies, mini blondies — all individually wrapped comfort food they can reach for whenever they’re able.

Perfect for when you can’t attend the funeral, when your friend lost their parent and you’re states away, when a coworker’s spouse died and flowers feel hollow, when someone is grieving alone and you desperately wish you could sit with them, or any moment when “I’m so sorry” needs to be accompanied by something tangible that says “please eat something, even if it’s just this.”

This is for: Loss of parent, spouse, child, sibling, close friend — when grief is fresh and overwhelming, when you can’t be there physically, when you want to help but don’t know how.

Sometimes love looks like ensuring they have food when nothing else makes sense.